@wife…Don’t be concerned about exposing these two cheaters, they were not concerned about your feelings. He kept Karen Voigt apprised of each of his numbers and addresses. Then I found out he had a secret life. Now the pedestal has crumbled and he is barely keeping his head above water. He is an innocent party here. At the end of each phone call Karen Voigt would tell him she loved him and he would reply with “Same here” and “You Too”. He says he was stupid, ignorant and an as…hole to have ever gotten mixed up with Karen Voigt. Gotta give him credit for being so very good at deception. The 2nd was in San Diego, CA, and the 3rd was in Madison, WI – half way between where we were living at that time. On Wed., he was out of town and I woke up suddenly thinking about Karen Taddy Voigt, his old girlfriend.
He came back from Hoffman much emotionally deeper, totally loving and committed to our marriage. So, why am I staying with him? Doesn’t lessen your hurt any, but he was hanging on to youth by his fingertips. I asked him how he pictured Karen Voigt when he talked to her and he said, “Like she was still 17.” Talk about a fantasy!!! I sat him in a chair facing mine in front of our wood burning stove and read each of them to him, one by one and tossed them into the stove. I was his one and only. Sorry, but the trust is gone. Karen Voigt signed hers Love, Karen. Karen Voight - Now.
They were always upbeat. Your husband is the problem along with the other woman. Take some great trips with friends wearing great cloths that you had fun shopping for. I asked him if he sent her Valentine’s cards. So, am I prostituting myself? He (an engineer) grouped the list into subjects and is writing me essays expanding on what I did for him. Karen Voight - Then. After many, many years of worrying about what was best for HIM and his career, I’m now worrying about myself. It limits your choices as you get older. I gave up a very promising career due to one of his job transfers. I did a reverse phone no. After struggling with this for nearly 10 mos., I am beginning to calm down and trying to work thru this. This story makes me so incredibly sad that I can’t even think of any of my usual zingers.I realize that not having an sexual relationship might not seem that bad. For 21 years you were in his life.
I’m sorry this happened to you. I am also a changed woman. He’s much more introspective and learned a lot about himself.
I’m 6 yrs. You really have to face yourself and be accountable to yourself. I continued asking questions, but got no answers, only there was nothing going on. He said I shouldn’t worry, nothing was going on. I was stonewalled. It’s not always about the physical. He is making an effort to make amends and says he doesn’t know how he got so screwed up. Being lied to and the sneaking around while portraying everything at home is great makes you question your intelligence, your intuition. I still am not sure WHAT I am going to do permanently. I’ve got a voice and, if I can, I’d like to use it for good… If you see me, feel free to say hello, but, I promise, I’m not nearly as emotive in person. They tried for 9 years, then finally gave up. Yes I do know what it feels like to be cheated on. Life is starting to normalize,
Welcome to Jonathan Bowen dot Boston!What is it about Karen Carpenter’s voice that is so magical? I’ve got all these emotions that have been bottled up by the beer bottle. There is a wonderful free recovery blog that has a great little support group going. Mainly, I am finding about myself and finding I don’t need validation from anyone else. We have both changed dramatically. Sometimes a couple of times a week and other times 6 mos. Thank you to all of you for your comments. Thank you for your comment and allowing me to vent some more.Thank you for your comments. He says he would take care of me if I left, but that would only be until he found himself another honey, then it would be all over for me. He has mostly been loving and kind to me. He says he is very relieved and grateful it is over. I was lied to and cheated on, as was her husband, (removed), for 21 fricking years (an entire generation).You are very right that he didn’t do everything he could to see her, or he would have. Her husband and myself were waiting there for them, trusting them implicitly, never suspecting a thing.
I have to validate myself. We have some more work to do, but have made huge progress. I’ve always taken care of myself and he admits that he never thought she was better looking than me.
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